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Dear Brian, </div>
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I, too, had a lovely conversation with Mary Lou maybe a month ago so was saddened to hear that her condition has changed so dramatically in such a short time. </div>
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I'm so sorry for the difficulty of the situation you are facing and pray that God will give you the strength and resilience to cope. </div>
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In peace,</div>
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<b>Sent:</b> Friday, December 2, 2022 7:29 PM<br>
<b>To:</b> Sunday Community <sundaycommunity@integralshift.ca><br>
<b>Cc:</b> Brian Halferty <bhalferty@yahoo.ca><br>
<b>Subject:</b> [Sundaycommunity] Update on Mary Lou and Brian</font>
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<div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false">The past couple of weeks or so have been very difficult and painful for Mary Lou and I and our family. I mentioned last Sunday that Mary Lou has been admitted to St. Michael's Hospital. She is still there and will remain
there at least through the coming week. She is a little calmer and more lucid generally than when she was admitted, but it is still a challenge for her to remain focused and connected to what's going on in the present moment. She has been well-supported
by our children, and their spouses, and their families. Someone from the family has been with her non-stop since her admission, both day and night, up until this week. The middle-of-the-night shift has been dropped the past 2 or 3 days because Mary Lou is
now having more peaceful and restful nights, on the whole.<br>
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<div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false">Last Sunday, prior to our liturgy, I tested positive for COVID-19 using one of the rapid tests. Later that day, the staff nurse in my building took a PCR test, which a couple of days later confirmed that I was positive. There
wasn't really any doubt. I had about 24 hours of aches and pains all over me, followed by a couple of days with a very full chest that made my breathing very tight. As the week has gone by, my breathing has cleared and I'm beginning to feel much better and
more energetic. Because I'm in a seniors' building, I am required to self-isolate for 10 days. As of today, I'm 6 days in. This has been particularly hard because it means I have not been able to visit Mary Lou in the hospital. We have talked each day, including
sometimes on video calls, but we miss each other.</div>
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<div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false">Today, Friday Dec. 2, is our wedding anniversary, our 55th anniversary. This is not how we would have anticipated spending our time on this day. No party, no dinner at The Keg. And today was also the day when our regional
Health Care Coordinator visited Mary Lou in hospital, in the company of our two daughters, Mary Beth and Lesley, to discuss Long Term Care. When Mary Lou is discharged from hospital, possibly in a week, or a bit more, she will be essentially bed-bound, and
will need a lift, manipulated by two people, to get out of or into bed, etc. The family and I feel we have little choice but to support the idea of applying for Long Term Care (LTC), and possibly for some interim care placement for Mary Lou until LTC comes
available. Today, Mary Lou signed the LTC application, and we are, with great sadness, supporting her in this decision. </div>
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<div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false">Mary Lou has been changed hospital rooms a couple of times but is now in the Cardinal Carter wing at St. Mike's, 14th floor, room 38. Visitors are welcome. Enter the hospital by the Queen Street entrance, follow the blue line
on the floor until the South Elevators, then up to the 14th.</div>
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<div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false">There is still much to endure. Please hold us in your hearts and your prayers.</div>
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<div dir="ltr" data-setdir="false">Best wishes,</div>
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<div style="font-family:new times,serif; font-size:16px"><font color="#4c76a2" size="4"><i>Brian J. Halferty</i><br>
146 Sumach Street, Apt. 214<br>
Toronto, ON M5A 0P7<br>
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<div dir="ltr"><span style="color:rgb(76,118,162); font-size:large">416-431-0038 </span><br>
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