<div dir="ltr"><div>Thank you Catherine for a wonderful meditation on anger and its antidote in these sad times of violence that threatens us all. More than ever Jesus' message of love of enemy, put back your sword, and nonviolence beckon us to take his message seriously!</div><div><br></div><div>In Peace</div><div><div dir="ltr" class="gmail_signature" data-smartmail="gmail_signature"><font size="2">Greg</font></div></div><br></div><br><div class="gmail_quote"><div dir="ltr" class="gmail_attr">On Tue, Nov 19, 2024 at 7:55 AM Catherine Walther via Sundaycommunity <<a href="mailto:sundaycommunity@lists.integralshift.ca">sundaycommunity@lists.integralshift.ca</a>> wrote:<br></div><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0px 0px 0px 0.8ex;border-left-width:1px;border-left-style:solid;border-left-color:rgb(204,204,204);padding-left:1ex"><div><br></div><div><div class="gmail_quote"><div dir="auto">So beautifully written by a true preacher of Truth. </div><div dir="auto">Enjoy, Catherine</div><div><div class="gmail_quote"><div style="line-break:after-white-space" dir="auto"><div><div><blockquote type="cite"><br><div style="margin:0px"><span style="font-family:-webkit-system-font,"Helvetica Neue",Helvetica,sans-serif;color:rgb(0,0,0)"><b>From: </b></span><span style="font-family:-webkit-system-font,"Helvetica Neue",Helvetica,sans-serif">The Marginalian by Maria Popova <<a href="mailto:newsletter@themarginalian.org" target="_blank">newsletter@themarginalian.org</a>><br></span></div><div style="margin:0px"><span style="font-family:-webkit-system-font,"Helvetica Neue",Helvetica,sans-serif;color:rgb(0,0,0)"><b>Subject: </b></span><span style="font-family:-webkit-system-font,"Helvetica Neue",Helvetica,sans-serif"><b>Leonard Cohen on the antidote to anger and the meaning of resistance, Doris Lessing on breaking the prisons we have chosen to live in, loving words</b><br></span></div><div style="margin:0px"><span style="font-family:-webkit-system-font,"Helvetica Neue",Helvetica,sans-serif;color:rgb(0,0,0)"><b>Date: </b></span><span style="font-family:-webkit-system-font,"Helvetica Neue",Helvetica,sans-serif">November 17, 2024 at 12:00:27 AM EST<br></span></div><div style="margin:0px" dir="auto"><span style="font-family:-webkit-system-font,"Helvetica Neue",Helvetica,sans-serif;color:rgb(0,0,0)"><b>To: </b></span><span style="font-family:-webkit-system-font,"Helvetica Neue",Helvetica,sans-serif"><br></span></div><div style="margin:0px"><span style="font-family:-webkit-system-font,"Helvetica Neue",Helvetica,sans-serif;color:rgb(0,0,0)"><b>Reply-To: </b></span><span style="font-family:-webkit-system-font,"Helvetica Neue",Helvetica,sans-serif">The Marginalian by Maria Popova <<a href="mailto:newsletter@themarginalian.org" target="_blank">newsletter@themarginalian.org</a>><br></span></div><br><div><center style="font-family:Helvetica;font-size:12px;font-style:normal;font-variant-caps:normal;font-weight:400;letter-spacing:normal;text-indent:0px;text-transform:none;white-space:normal;word-spacing:0px;background-color:rgb(247,247,247);text-decoration:none"><table align="center" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" id="m_-8551531001722241225m_8487420800102721290m_422891170301398989bodyTable" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;height:22755.8125px;width:877px;background-color:rgb(247,247,247);border-collapse:collapse"><tbody><tr><td align="center" id="m_-8551531001722241225m_8487420800102721290m_422891170301398989bodyCell" valign="top" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;height:22755.8125px;width:877px"><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" id="m_-8551531001722241225m_8487420800102721290m_422891170301398989templateContainer" style="width:680px;max-width:680px;table-layout:fixed;background-color:rgb(255,255,255);border-collapse:collapse"><tbody><tr><td align="center" valign="top" id="m_-8551531001722241225m_8487420800102721290m_422891170301398989templatePreheader_padding" style="padding:20px 40px"><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="100%" id="m_-8551531001722241225m_8487420800102721290m_422891170301398989templatePreheader" style="background-color:rgb(255,255,255);border-collapse:collapse"><tbody><tr><td valign="top" style="color:rgb(140,140,140);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:11px;line-height:16.5px;text-align:left;width:auto">NOTE: This newsletter might be cut short by your email program.<span> </span><a href="https://mailchi.mp/themarginalian/leonard-cohen-doris-lessing?e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);font-weight:normal;text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">View it in full</a>.</td><td valign="top" style="color:rgb(140,140,140);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:11px;line-height:16.5px;text-align:left;width:40px"> </td><td valign="top" style="color:rgb(140,140,140);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:11px;line-height:16.5px;text-align:left;width:auto">If a friend forwarded it to you and you'd like your very own newsletter,<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2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lor:rgb(38,38,38)"><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=caa6736995&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:none" target="_blank">Leonard Cohen on the Antidote to Anger and the Meaning of Resistance</a></h1><div style="margin:0px 40px"><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left"><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=307da2314e&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><img width="150" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/leonardcohen_bookoflonging.jpg?fit=320%2C495" align="right" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 16px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; display: inline; width: 150px; margin: 5px 0px 10px 30px;"></a></p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">One of the commonest and most corrosive human reflexes is to react to helplessness with anger. We do it in our personal lives and we do it in our political lives.<span> </span></p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">We are living through a time of uncommon helplessness and uncertainty, touching every aspect of our lives, and in such times another reflex is the longing for an authority figure selling certainty, claiming the fist to be a helping hand. It is a touchingly human impulse, primal and pacifying — children turn to the parent to remove the overwhelm and uncertainty of a world they don’t yet understand and cannot carry. It is also a dangerous impulse, for it pulsates beneath every war and every reign of terror in the history of the world.<span> </span></p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left"><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=1153ea7ee9&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">Leonard Cohen</a><span> </span>(September 21, 1934–November 7, 2016), who<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=53780d8a44&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">thought deeply and passionately</a><span> </span>about the cracks in democracy and its redemptions, shines a sidewise gleam on this eternal challenge of the human spirit in a couple of pieces found in his<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=5789f56f3c&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><strong><em>Book of Longing</em></strong></a><span> </span>(<a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=b7ec8a41a5&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><em>public library</em></a>) — the collection of poems, drawings, and prose meditations composed over the course of the five years he spent living in a Zen monastery.</p><img src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/LeonardCohenFamilyTrust.jpg?resize=680%2C383" width="600" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 16px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; display: inline; width: 600px;"><p style="color:rgb(140,140,140);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:0.8em;line-height:21.120001px;text-align:left;border-bottom-width:1px;border-bottom-style:solid;border-bottom-color:rgb(191,191,191);padding:0px 0px 4px">Leonard Cohen (courtesy of Leonard Cohen Family Trust)</p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">In a timeless passage that now reads prophetic, he writes:</p><blockquote style="display:block"><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left"><img src="https://gallery.mailchimp.com/13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1/images/2e292385-dc1c-4cfe-b95e-845f6f98c2ec.png" align="left" width="50" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 15px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; padding: 5px 30px 10px 0px; display: inline; width: 50px;">We are moving into a period of bewilderment, a curious moment in which people find light in the midst of despair, and vertigo at the summit of their hopes. It is a religious moment also, and here is the danger. People will want to obey the voice of Authority, and many strange constructs of just what Authority is will arise in every mind… The public yearning for Order will invite many stubborn uncompromising persons to impose it. The sadness of the zoo will fall upon society.</p></blockquote><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">In such periods, he goes on to intimate, love — that most intimate and inward of human labors, that supreme instrument for magnifying<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=c6f0848ddd&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">the light between us</a><span> </span>and lighting up the world — is an act of courage and resistance.</p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">Cohen takes up the subject of what resistance really means in another piece from the book — a poem titled “SOS 1995,” that is really an anthem for all times, a lifeline for all periods of helplessness and uncertainty, personal or political, and a cautionary parable about the theater of authority, about the price of giving oneself over to its false comfort. He writes:</p><blockquote style="display:block"><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left"><img src="https://gallery.mailchimp.com/13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1/images/2e292385-dc1c-4cfe-b95e-845f6f98c2ec.png" align="left" width="50" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 15px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; padding: 5px 30px 10px 0px; display: inline; width: 50px;">Take a long time with your anger,<br>sleepyhead.<br>Don’t waste it in riots.<br>Don’t tangle it with ideas.<br>The Devil won’t let me speak,<br>will only let me hint<br>that you are a slave,<br>your misery a deliberate policy<br>of those in whose thrall you suffer,<br>and who are sustained<br>by your misfortune.<br>The atrocities over there,<br>the interior paralysis over here —<br>Pleased with the better deal?<br>You are clamped down.<br>You are being bred for pain.<br>The Devil ties my tongue.<br>I’m speaking to you,<br>“friend of my scribbled life.”<br>You have been conquered by those<br>who know how to conquer invincibly.<br>The curtains move so beautifully,<br>lace curtains of some<br>sweet old intrigue:<br>the Devil tempting me<br>to turn away from alarming you.</p><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left">So I must say it quickly:<br>Whoever is in your life,<br>those who harm you,<br>those who help you;<br>those whom you know<br>and those whom you do not know —<br>let them off the hook,<br>help them off the hook.<br>You are listening to Radio Resistance.</p></blockquote><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">Complement with Thich Nhat Hanh’s<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=2028fefff6&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">poetic antidote to anger</a><span> </span>and Erich Fromm’s<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=6eba682018&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">psychological antidote to helplessness and disorientation</a>, then revisit Leonard Cohen on<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=f9276cd5c3&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">the constitution of the inner country</a><span> </span>and<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=f717b7eb6d&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">what makes a saint</a>.</p></div><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="width:680px;border-collapse:collapse"><tbody><tr><td><h3 style="display:block;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:11px;font-style:normal;font-weight:normal;line-height:16.5px;letter-spacing:1px;text-transform:uppercase;text-align:left;border:1px solid rgb(191,191,191);margin:10px 40px 40px;padding:15px 20px;color:rgb(140,140,140)"><a href="https://us2.forward-to-friend.com/forward?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=2e3638e287&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(140,140,140);text-decoration:none" target="_blank">SHARE THIS WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE</a><span style="display:inline-block;padding:0px 10px">/</span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=cd1dfd75fe&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(140,140,140);text-decoration:none" target="_blank">READ ONLINE</a><span style="display:inline-block;padding:0px 10px">/</span><a href="https://mailchi.mp/themarginalian/leonard-cohen-doris-lessing?fblike=fblike-784ad119&e=3b5837fdb5&socialproxy=https%3A%2F%2Fus2.campaign-archive.com%2Fsocial-proxy%2Ffacebook-like%3Fu%3D13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1%26id%3D2e3638e287%26url%3Dhttps%253A%252F%252Fwww.themarginalian.org%252F2024%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omeone else, send you searching for a different organizing principle. (It takes some living to reach that point, which is why midlife can be<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=60bcb57038&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">such a time of tumult and transformation</a>.)</p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">We live and die with these questions, rooted in our earliest childhood, in those first reckonings with what makes us ourselves, those first experiments in self-acceptance. They are deep and difficult questions, but<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=921a0a5969&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">Oliver Jeffers</a><span> </span>and Sam Winston bring great playfulness and delight to them in their<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=b1b740f91e&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">second</a><span> </span>collaboration,<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=d09db04bc7&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><strong><em>The Dictionary Story</em></strong></a><span> </span>(<a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=4e0bf4888c&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><em>public library</em></a>) — a charming fable about the yearning for inner congruence and the existential exhale of self-acceptance, and a love letter to language carried by Oliver’s joyful paintings, his singular hand-lettering, and Sam’s symphonic collage compositions.<span> </span></p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left"><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=f1ff0a599a&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/oliverjeffers_dictionary1-1.jpg?resize=680%2C424" width="600" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 16px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; display: inline; width: 600px;"></a></p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">The story begins on the bookshelf, where “most of the time, all the books knew what they were about” — except one book. Because she contains “all the words that had ever been read, which meant she could say all the things that could ever be said,” Dictionary is perpetually unsure of herself, her organizing principle not coherence but alphabetic order, the words in her not a story but a list.</p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">It is often the most unexpected and improbable things that save us from ourselves: An Alligator suddenly leaps from the A pages and, ravenous for a snack, heads to the D pages for a Donut, who, not wanting to be eaten, darts across the alphabet.<span> </span></p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left"><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=4fadab2fe4&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/oliverjeffers_dictionary2.jpg?resize=680%2C482" width="600" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 16px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; display: inline; width: 600px;"></a></p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left"><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=1eadab745e&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/oliverjeffers_dictionary3.jpg?resize=680%2C474" width="600" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 16px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; display: inline; width: 600px;"></a></p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">A chaos of delight ensues as other words come alive as other characters — a Ghost, a Cloud, a Queen, a Tornado, the Moon — each trying to understand their part in the confusing story writing itself through their animacy.</p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,s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pan></p><img src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Velocity_FelicitaSala.jpg" width="600" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 16px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; display: inline; width: 600px;"><p style="color:rgb(140,140,140);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:0.8em;line-height:21.120001px;text-align:left;border-bottom-width:1px;border-bottom-style:solid;border-bottom-color:rgb(191,191,191);padding:0px 0px 4px">Art by Felicita Sala from<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=1be106a29f&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><em>A Velocity of Being: Letters to a Young Reader</em></a>.</p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">This is why we need writers — those professional observers, in Susan Sontag’s<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=aedd5b8ccc&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">splendid definition</a>, whose job it is to “pay attention to the world” and shine the light of that attention on every side of the kaleidoscope that is a given culture at a given time. A decade after Iris Murdoch wrote in her<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=9d0354d2ce&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">superb reckoning with the role of literature in democracy</a><span> </span>that “tyrants always fear art because tyrants want to mystify while art tends to clarify,” Lessing writes:</p><blockquote style="display:block"><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left"><img src="https://gallery.mailchimp.com/13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1/images/2e292385-dc1c-4cfe-b95e-845f6f98c2ec.png" align="left" width="50" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 15px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; padding: 5px 30px 10px 0px; display: inline; width: 50px;">In totalitarian societies writers are distrusted for precisely this reason… Writers everywhere are aspects of each other, aspects of a function that has been evolved by society… Literature is one of the most useful ways we have of achieving this “other eye,” this detached manner of seeing ourselves; history is another.</p></blockquote><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">Because we are the future of our own past, the posterity of our ancestors, looking back on history from our present vantage point offers fertile training ground for looking forward, for shaping the world of tomorrow. Lessing writes:</p><blockquote style="display:block"><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left"><img src="https://gallery.mailchimp.com/13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1/images/2e292385-dc1c-4cfe-b95e-845f6f98c2ec.png" align="left" width="50" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 15px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; padding: 5px 30px 10px 0px; display: inline; width: 50px;">Anyone who reads history at all knows that the passionate and powerful convictions of one century usually seem absurd, extraordinary, to the next. There is no epoch in history that seems to us as it must have to the people who lived through it. What we live through, in any age, is the effect on us of mass emotions and of social conditions from which it is almost impossible to detach ourselves.</p><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left">[…]</p><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left">There is no such thing as my being in the right, my side being in the right, because within a generation or two, my present way of thinking is bound to be found perhaps faintly ludicrous, perhaps quite outmoded by new development — at the best, something that has been changed, all passion spent, into a small part of a great process, a development.</p></blockquote><img src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/DorisLessing_NPG_TheMarginalian1.jpg?resize=680%2C685" width="600" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 16px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; display: inline; width: 600px;"><p style="color:rgb(140,140,140);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:0.8em;line-height:21.120001px;text-align:left;border-bottom-width:1px;border-bottom-style:solid;border-bottom-color:rgb(191,191,191);padding:0px 0px 4px">Doris Lessing, 1950s. (National Portrait Gallery, London)</p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">In consonance with Carl Sagan’s admonition against<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=3c98c07142&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">“the sense that we have a monopoly on the truth”</a><span> </span>and with Joan Didion’s admonition against<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=9b6f0cfc1d&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">mistaking self-righteousness for morality</a>, Lessing offers:</p><blockquote style="display:block"><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left"><img src="https://gallery.mailchimp.com/13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1/images/2e292385-dc1c-4cfe-b95e-845f6f98c2ec.png" align="left" width="50" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 15px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; padding: 5px 30px 10px 0px; display: inline; width: 50px;">This business of seeing ourselves as in the right, others in the wrong; our cause as right, theirs as wrong; our ideas as correct, theirs as nonsense, if not as downright evil… Well, in our sober moments, our human moments, the times when we think, reflect, and allow our rational minds to dominate us, we all of us suspect that this “I am right, you are wrong” is, quite simply, nonsense. All history, development goes on through interaction and mutual influence, and even the most violent extremes of thought, of behaviour, become woven into the general texture of human life, as one strand of it. This process can be seen over and over again in history. In fact, it is as if what is real in human development — the main current of social evolution — cannot tolerate extremes, so it seeks to expel extremes and extremists, or to get rid of them by absorbing them into the general stream.</p></blockquote><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">Looking back on the colonialist Zimbabwe of her childhood, on the “prejudiced, ugly, ignorant” attitudes of the ruling whites, she reflects:</p><blockquote style="display:block"><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left"><img src="https://gallery.mailchimp.com/13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1/images/2e292385-dc1c-4cfe-b95e-845f6f98c2ec.png" align="left" width="50" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 15px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; padding: 5px 30px 10px 0px; display: inline; width: 50px;">These attitudes were assumed to be unchallengeable and unalterable, though the merest glance at history would have told them (and many of them were educated people) that it was inevitable their rule would pass, that their certitudes were temporary.</p></blockquote><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">At the center of Lessing’s inquiry is the paradox of how seemingly sound-minded, kind-hearted people get enlisted in ideologies of oppression. Kierkegaard<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=67985e0005&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">had written</a>in the Golden Age of European revolutions — those idealistic but imperfect attempts to unify fractured feudal duchies into free nations, attempts that modeled the possibility of a United States of America — that “the evolution of the world tends to show the absolute importance of the category of the individual apart from the crowd,” that “truth always rests with the minority, and the minority is always stronger than the majority, because… the strength of a majority is illusory, formed by the gangs who have no opinion.” An epoch and a world order later, Lessing considers how regimes of terror take hold:</p><blockquote style="display:block"><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left"><img src="https://gallery.mailchimp.com/13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1/images/2e292385-dc1c-4cfe-b95e-845f6f98c2ec.png" align="left" width="50" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 15px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; padding: 5px 30px 10px 0px; display: inline; width: 50px;">Nearly everyone in such situations behaves automatically. But there is always the minority who do not, and it seems to me that our future, the future of everybody, depends on this minority. And that we should be thinking of ways to educate our children to strengthen this minority and not, as we mostly do now, to revere the pack.</p></blockquote><img src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/bearisneveralone1.jpg" width="600" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 16px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; display: inline; width: 600px;"><p style="color:rgb(140,140,140);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:0.8em;line-height:21.120001px;text-align:left;border-bottom-width:1px;border-bottom-style:solid;border-bottom-color:rgb(191,191,191);padding:0px 0px 4px">Art by Jeska Verstegen from<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=b00fe42f30&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><em>Bear Is Never Alone</em></a><span> </span>by Marc Veerkamp</p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">The mess we have made, she intimates, may be the most effective teaching tool we have — a living admonition against doing the same, a clarion call to rebel by doing otherwise:</p><blockquote style="display:block"><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left"><img src="https://gallery.mailchimp.com/13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1/images/2e292385-dc1c-4cfe-b95e-845f6f98c2ec.png" align="left" width="50" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 15px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; padding: 5px 30px 10px 0px; display: inline; width: 50px;">Perhaps it is not too much to say that in these violent times the kindest, wisest wish we have for the young must be: “We hope that your period of immersion in group lunacy, group self-righteousness, will not coincide with some period of your country’s history when you can put your murderous and stupid ideas into practice. “If you are lucky, you will emerge much enlarged by your experience of what you are capable of in the way of bigotry and intolerance. You will understand absolutely how sane people, in periods of public insanity, can murder, destroy, lie, swear black is white.”</p></blockquote><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">As for us, here in the roiling mess, our sole salvation lies in learning to “live our lives with minds free of violent and passionate commitment, but in a condition of intelligent doubt about ourselves and our lives, a state of quiet, tentative, dispassionate curiosity.” Lessing writes:</p><blockquote style="display:block"><p style="color:rgb(89,89,89);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:15px;line-height:25.5px;text-align:left"><img src="https://gallery.mailchimp.com/13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1/images/2e292385-dc1c-4cfe-b95e-845f6f98c2ec.png" align="left" width="50" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 15px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; padding: 5px 30px 10px 0px; display: inline; width: 50px;">While all these boilings and upheavals go on, at the same time, parallel, continues this other revolution: the quiet revolution, based on sober and accurate observation of ourselves, our behaviour, our capacities… If we decided to use it, [we may] transform the world we live in. But it means making that deliberate step into objectivity and away from wild emotionalism, deliberately choosing to see ourselves as, perhaps, a visitor from another planet might see us.</p></blockquote><img src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/kamauandzuzu4.jpg" width="600" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 16px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; display: inline; width: 600px;"><p style="color:rgb(140,140,140);font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:0.8em;line-height:21.120001px;text-align:left;border-bottom-width:1px;border-bottom-style:solid;border-bottom-color:rgb(191,191,191);padding:0px 0px 4px">Art by Diana Ejaita from<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=1f2053917f&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><em>Kamau & ZuZu Find a Way</em></a><span> </span>by poet Aracelis Girmay</p><p style="color:rgb(38,38,38);font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;line-height:26.4px;text-align:left">This, in fact, was the conditional clause in Baldwin’s words to Mead — in order to be “each other’s only hope,”<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=ae27cead81&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">he said</a>, we ought to be “as clear-headed about human beings as possible.” This, too, was Maya Angelou’s conditional optimism for humanity: “That is when, and only when, we come to it” — to that<span> </span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=814915a3df&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank">“Brave and Startling Truth,”</a><span> </span>balanced on the fulcrum of our conflicted capacities, “that we are the possible, we are the miraculous, the true wonder of this world.”</p></div><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="width:680px;border-collapse:collapse"><tbody><tr><td><h3 style="display:block;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:11px;font-style:normal;font-weight:normal;line-height:16.5px;letter-spacing:1px;text-transform:uppercase;text-align:left;border:1px solid rgb(191,191,191);margin:10px 40px 40px;padding:15px 20px;color:rgb(140,140,140)"><a href="https://us2.forward-to-friend.com/forward?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=2e3638e287&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(140,140,140);text-decoration:none" target="_blank">SHARE THIS WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE</a><span style="display:inline-block;padding:0px 10px">/</span><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=d297c5c631&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(140,140,140);text-decoration:none" target="_blank">READ ONLINE</a><span style="display:inline-block;padding:0px 10px">/</span><a href="https://mailchi.mp/themarginalian/leonard-cohen-doris-lessing?fblike=fblike-7b8cbe56&e=3b5837fdb5&socialproxy=https%3A%2F%2Fus2.campaign-archive.com%2Fsocial-proxy%2Ffacebook-like%3Fu%3D13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1%26id%3D2e3638e287%26url%3Dhttps%253A%252F%252Fwww.themarginalian.org%252F2024%252F11%252F11%252Fdoris-lessing-massey-lectures%252F%26title%3Dhttps%253A%252F%252Fwww.themarginalian.org%252F2024%252F11%252F1..." title="Like https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/11/11/doris-lessing-massey-lectures/ on Facebook" rel="socialproxy" id="m_-8551531001722241225m_8487420800102721290m_422891170301398989fblike-7b8cbe56" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><img src="http://cdn-images.mailchimp.com/fb/like.gif" border="0" alt="Like https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/11/11/doris-lessing-massey-lectures/ on Facebook" height="20" width="48" style="border: 0px; height: auto; line-height: 11px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; display: inline; width: 48px;"></a></h3></td></tr></tbody></table><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="width:680px;margin:0px 0px 40px;background:repeat rgb(51,51,51);border-collapse:collapse"><tbody><tr><td><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="margin:40px;background:repeat rgb(51,51,51);display:block;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:13px;font-style:normal;font-weight:normal;line-height:19.5px;letter-spacing:normal;text-align:left;border-collapse:collapse;color:rgb(255,255,255)"><tbody><tr><td><h2 style="display:block;font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:27px;font-style:italic;font-weight:normal;line-height:40.5px;letter-spacing:normal;margin:0px 0px 10px;text-align:left;border-bottom-width:1px;border-bottom-style:solid;border-bottom-color:rgb(148,130,20);padding:0px 0px 3px;color:rgb(255,219,0)">donating=loving</h2>Every month, I spend hundreds of hours and thousands of dollars keeping<span> </span><em>The Marginalian</em><span> </span>going. For seventeen years, it has remained free and ad-free and alive thanks to patronage from readers. I have no staff, no interns, not even an assistant — a thoroughly one-woman labor of love that is also my life and my livelihood. If this labor makes your own life more livable in any way, please consider aiding its sustenance with a one-time or loyal donation. Your support makes all the difference.<table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="border-collapse:collapse"><tbody><tr><td valign="top" width="47.5%"><h2 style="display:block;font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;font-style:italic;font-weight:normal;line-height:24px;letter-spacing:normal;margin:30px 0px 10px;text-align:left;border-bottom-width:1px;border-bottom-style:solid;border-bottom-color:rgb(148,130,20);padding:0px 0px 5px;color:rgb(255,219,0)">monthly donation</h2><span style="color:rgb(255,255,255)">You can become a Sustaining Patron with a recurring monthly donation of your choosing, between a cup of tea and a Brooklyn lunch.</span></td><td valign="top" width="5%"> </td><td valign="top" width="47.5%"><h2 style="display:block;font-family:Georgia,serif;font-size:16px;font-style:italic;font-weight:normal;line-height:24px;letter-spacing:normal;margin:30px 0px 10px;text-align:left;border-bottom-width:1px;border-bottom-style:solid;border-bottom-color:rgb(148,130,20);padding:0px 0px 5px;color:rgb(255,219,0)">one-time donation</h2><span style="color:rgb(255,255,255)">Or you can become a Spontaneous Supporter with a one-time donation in any amount.</span></td></tr><tr><td valign="top" width="47.5%"><a href="https://themarginalian.us2.list-manage.com/track/click?u=13eb080d8a315477042e0d5b1&id=a5898d63d2&e=3b5837fdb5" style="color:rgb(195,55,55);text-decoration:underline" target="_blank"><img alt="Start Now" src="https://gallery.mailchimp.com/dbeae2cb82bd3279d443819a5/images/87a3e0e9-dd64-463e-96e3-0c8fd37a7b1f.png" width="105" style="border: 0px; height: 30px; line-height: 13px; outline: currentcolor; text-decoration: none; display: inline; width: 1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